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"But where do you go to my lovely
When you're alone in your bed
Won't you tell me the thoughts that surround you I want to look inside your head, yes I do." #songlyrics #eventide_love  #lostinlove #mindlessbehavior #mindgames #mystory #amwriting #psychologicalthriller based around #emotionalabuse  #follownow #Blog bio link in bio. #ireland🇮🇪 #bookblogger a Psychological Thriller based around emotional abuse; -
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"I kissed him like he was my God, and I his protector. I kissed him with a desperate, dark wildness. I kissed him hard with my tongue, my teeth in utter abandonment. A storm built in both of us as he laid siege to my desire, his hands sliding down my body, clasping my ass, entering me with a savage drive. At that moment we became lost in our universe as two uncomplicated fucking beasts. In that flash instant, he intoxicated me in a frenzied desire for his sheer physical strength, for his passion, for his stimulation, my life fueled by his breath. I convulsed from the savagery of his kisses, his fucking, penetrating with callous intent and right then I knew I could never be without this man in my life. My intellect captured, frenzied lust exploding as he pummelled me I clung on fucking him as if my life depended on it. It was that one fuck." #emotionalabuse as a #psychologicalthriller #amwriting #mystory #writingismyfreedom #writinglife #badlove #psyco #thrillerbooks Pain of a Silent Cry  #eventide_love Psychological Thriller- follow link for the story. . "I am struggling to surface from a limited perspective of my one-dimensional life with Chris. My life is falling apart; I am fading like a dying bulb into darkness. I am terrified of the future without Chris but even more terrified of my life with him." #psychologicalthriller #emotionalabuse #mystory #writinglife #thrillerbooks #amwriting #writingmystory #readers #artwork_artist #peterallert #saatchiartist #livewithart #artcollector Shades of Danger & Adventure - sums up life in emotional abuse. "There were many shades in the danger of adventures and gales, most of which were exhilarating and golden. It is only now and then that there appears on the face of facts a sinister violence of intention- that indefinable something which forces it upon the mind and the heart." "I could see no images only shades of light
I spread my arms out over the abyss

my heart’s rhythm was so slow
there was no need to inhale
my soul on the edge of the abyss
strands of obscure light from the heart of the earth
reached out and attached to my skin hugging me
I embraced the powerful draw of the abyss
the light fading and dying, I looked up and saw you." "Most victims keep their abusers secrets; they count on that, knowing exposing them exposes our failings. Telling about what happened to you is a powerful healing force that can dispel the shame of being a victim. Remember; the perversion belongs to the perpetrator and so does the shame." I write Emotional Abuse as a Psychological Thriller. #amwriting #truestory💯 #psychologicalabuse #mentalabuse #eventide_love #ireland🍀 #alfredhitchcock #davidlynch #amwritingfiction #bloglife

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Don’t Stay Stuck in Emotional Abuse

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Are you stuck in an abusive relationship or struggling to recover from one. Well, what I can tell you is that my most valuable realisation during my entire experience is if you don’t take care of yourself if you are not going to love yourself or uncover every stone to help yourself, you will never be free from the abuse and its aftermath. If you are not going to explore every single opportunity to get away from emotional destruction and prerequisites to endure the aftermath, you will never make it through the recovery process. Many people stay stuck in the abuse while either in or out of the relationship. They have cemented in the suffering, and it means their entire life is based on trauma. As wonderful it is to have family and friends who love you they are not going to take you away from your suffering, only you can do that. Like alcoholism or drug addiction, the ongoing enslavement is the product of your feelings and fears that opened the door to the ignominy in the first place.

It’s been a long and very wobbly road for me to realise I do not want to stay in this zone anymore. I don’t want to remain stuck. I am not disassociating, hiding or running from the reality of my situation anymore. I don’t want my life to remain based in trauma anymore. Trust me you won’t just wake up one day and be happy, free and fully living life again if you don’t put the effort in to do so. No one else is going to give me the peace and love I crave; I need to do that for myself first. And so do you.

The long-term cumulative effects of abuse are often difficult to quantify. For many victims, their way of coping is to suppress painful memories. Others have feelings of detachment or isolation; their self-worth and self-esteem destroyed. Feelings from abuse contribute to emotional problems and disorders, including anxiety, panic attacks, stress, depression, and PTSD.

Stress is credited for up to 75% of all hospital stays. Studies have shown those who do not come to terms with abuse, have a harder time dealing with stressful situations in life. As life progresses, situations associated with the abuse are difficult to handle.
Understanding emotional and mental abuse is one thing. Effectively releasing the pain and emotions attached to abuse is something completely different.

To let go, you must take action and to make the changes necessary to move on with your life. Abuse tends to impede how we process thoughts and emotions. It very often contributes to PTSD, anxiety and OCD. It touches a person at the core of their mental and emotional abilities so seeking professional help will assist with your struggle to make sense of it all, to find your life again.

Nothing changes unless you give yourself a chance to change. Raise your odds on reclaiming your life by making yourself aware and knowledgeable by reading every piece of information on emotional and psychological abuse out there. Information was paramount in my understanding and efforts to make sense of my experience. Decide it’s time to live and support your mental and emotional needs in a meaningful and willful manner.
Remember, your life does not have to be based on trauma. You can give yourself the gift of a peaceful life if you just take a deep breath, let go of the fear, be prepared and make the leap forward.

I would be lying if I told you that leaving your abusive partner is easy. But by putting the following steps in place will give you the best chance for a successful break from your abusive partner.

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