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Project; Let’s Write Love The magic wand to writing is writing. There is nothing complicated about it, just start. Find that space and time, and simply begin to write your stories as blogs. When I started, I wrote chapters in a short story format as I went along. I published them as blogs. Later on, I headed into the editing process, which I will cover later on, organizing and editing my blogs into the book. Don't overwhelm yourself by believing you are starting to write a book. That's not how writing works. You write a sentence, then a paragraph, then maybe if you're lucky, an entire chapter. Writing happens in fits and starts, in bits and pieces. It's a process. You take one step at a time, then another and another. To help you kickstart your writing, I am going to give you a prompt. And that is the Word' Love'. It sounds simple, but the truth is love is a complex web of action and emotion. It's an emotion that runs through every story in all guises. It can be pure love, deep love, lonely love, anxious love, abusive love, conflicted love, whatever kind of love you are feeling or experiencing. Below some examples to help stimulate your creative juices; 1 Love in Isolation. 2 Family Love 3 Love for a partner 4 Lost Love 5 Broken Love 6 Enduring love 7 Obsessive Love 8 Love of a Pet 9 The pain of Love 10 Dangerous Love 11 Happy Love This exercise will help you understand your voice in your style of writing. : : You can email me your writing Room19sf@gmail.com and let’s build a safe place for us to create and share together ❤️ Get started, keep writing. Stay Safe, Stay Positive, Create, don't Despair. Dress @onjenu : : : : #amwriting #writingcommunity #covıd19 #selfisolation #writelove #ireland🇮🇪 #vision2020 #imagemagazineireland #theglossmagazine #voguemagazine #creativewriting #irishwriters #writingtips #howtowrite #covid19ireland #coronavirusireland #staysafe #createeveryday #createdontdespair
Hi everyone, just a little reminder to find that space and start your writing. Last post on my grid- Writing 1 - What, Why, Knowledge, stay on it. : Get writing, keep writing and email me. Chat tomorrow. Stay Safe, Stay Positive, Create don’t Despair. 💃 #absolutelypatsy : : : . #staysafe #stayhome #letswritetogether #letswrite #writingprompts #writinginspiration #womenover50 #amwriting #psychologicalthriller #fictionwriter #memoir #creativewritingsociety #writingcommunity #womenempowerment #covıd19 #covid19ireland #lovindublin #vision2020
Like so many of you I am looking after my mum and dad in their older age. As I am in self isolation right now it’s proving very difficult and worrying. Mum who is not well fell a few times last night and my poor 92 year old dad finding it hard to cope. It breaks my heart that elderly people have to go through all of this alone during a time when we should be with them and hugging and minding them. Still waiting to be tested. Lots of love to all the elderly out there 💗 : : : : #covid19ireland #staysafe
As Promised today is the start of writing our way through these difficult times. Today's project below. What - What do you want to write about? There are so many genres in writing: Romance, Fantasy, Thriller, Detective, Mystery, Adventure, Horror. Or you might want to write a memoir, or what you are going through right now, possibly as a blog. And then there is Young Adult Fiction and Children. Whatever you want to write, it's essential that in a few hundred words, you outline your idea. That's the first thing for you to do today. : Why - Why do you want to write it? Similarly, write a few hundred words on why you want to write. That will help you understand what your end goal is. Do you want to have a novel at the end, or a series of short stories, start a blog, publish or for own satisfaction? : Knowledge - What is your experience, understanding, comprehension of your subject matter? ‘Write for yourself; rewrite for others'…this is one of the most excellent writing tips for beginners anyone could give you. Know your subject, but equally as important, know your audience better than they know themselves. Act as if you are speaking to one person and write accordingly to create an emotional tie with your readers. : The Magic of Writing Writing is magic, from your imagination, you can create something quite literally out of nothing. Once I started the process of writing, I began to love it. I found myself looking forward to my allocated writing time, excited to see where I was going with the characters and story. The best way to do justice to writing is to love it. Once you start enjoying the process as I did, it will come naturally to you, and you'll look forward to writing every day. Your magic wand to writing is to simply put your fingers to the keyboard or pen to paper. Set a time, be disciplined, and reveal in your writing. Be consistent and keep the words flowing regularly. Try and notch up a few hundred words every day, so you don't lose the thread the magic touch. : Email: room19sf@gmail.com Top @onjenu. Love @tommazer #absolutelypatsy
My babe Olliepop telling me how much he loves me as I self isolate, not feeling great, waiting to be tested. @petbond_ireland : : : : #absolutelypatsy #covid19ireland #dogslove #dogslife🐶 #lovemyshihtzu #mentalhealth #staysafeoutthere #selfisolation
FUEL YOUR MIND WITH CREATIVE WRITING while in self isolation. Learn to write with someone who loves to write. I have done a lot of courses, studies and workshops on writing and I want to share all of that with you. I have a couple of successful blogs, written a book and a short film script that was about to go into production but now postponed. Let’s put fingers to keyboards and let the words spill out. Let's start to write that story that has been percolating in your brain but you never had the time to take on. Or you might want to write about what you are going through right now. If you need inspiration or want a few quick tips to help keep your words flowing onto the screen, you can dip into my workshops [tutorials]. Anytime, anywhere, anyone. Let's create not despair.

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Don’t Stay Stuck in Emotional Abuse

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Are you stuck in an abusive relationship or struggling to recover from one. Well, what I can tell you is that my most valuable realisation during my entire experience is if you don’t take care of yourself if you are not going to love yourself or uncover every stone to help yourself, you will never be free from the abuse and its aftermath. If you are not going to explore every single opportunity to get away from emotional destruction and prerequisites to endure the aftermath, you will never make it through the recovery process. Many people stay stuck in the abuse while either in or out of the relationship. They have cemented in the suffering, and it means their entire life is based on trauma. As wonderful it is to have family and friends who love you they are not going to take you away from your suffering, only you can do that. Like alcoholism or drug addiction, the ongoing enslavement is the product of your feelings and fears that opened the door to the ignominy in the first place.

It’s been a long and very wobbly road for me to realise I do not want to stay in this zone anymore. I don’t want to remain stuck. I am not disassociating, hiding or running from the reality of my situation anymore. I don’t want my life to remain based in trauma anymore. Trust me you won’t just wake up one day and be happy, free and fully living life again if you don’t put the effort in to do so. No one else is going to give me the peace and love I crave; I need to do that for myself first. And so do you.

The long-term cumulative effects of abuse are often difficult to quantify. For many victims, their way of coping is to suppress painful memories. Others have feelings of detachment or isolation; their self-worth and self-esteem destroyed. Feelings from abuse contribute to emotional problems and disorders, including anxiety, panic attacks, stress, depression, and PTSD.

Stress is credited for up to 75% of all hospital stays. Studies have shown those who do not come to terms with abuse, have a harder time dealing with stressful situations in life. As life progresses, situations associated with the abuse are difficult to handle.
Understanding emotional and mental abuse is one thing. Effectively releasing the pain and emotions attached to abuse is something completely different.

To let go, you must take action and to make the changes necessary to move on with your life. Abuse tends to impede how we process thoughts and emotions. It very often contributes to PTSD, anxiety and OCD. It touches a person at the core of their mental and emotional abilities so seeking professional help will assist with your struggle to make sense of it all, to find your life again.

Nothing changes unless you give yourself a chance to change. Raise your odds on reclaiming your life by making yourself aware and knowledgeable by reading every piece of information on emotional and psychological abuse out there. Information was paramount in my understanding and efforts to make sense of my experience. Decide it’s time to live and support your mental and emotional needs in a meaningful and willful manner.
Remember, your life does not have to be based on trauma. You can give yourself the gift of a peaceful life if you just take a deep breath, let go of the fear, be prepared and make the leap forward.

I would be lying if I told you that leaving your abusive partner is easy. But by putting the following steps in place will give you the best chance for a successful break from your abusive partner.

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